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The Little Match Girl - Blog Action Day

This post is my contribution to Blog Action Day 2008. Last year thousands of bloggers joined forces and focused on the Environment. Today the topic is Poverty.

Today I share with you a fairy tale by Hans Christian Andersen. The theme of the fairy tale is not poverty, but the context very much is. This story chokes me up every time I read it or see it in the Efteling theme park.

The Little Match Girl - Video (narrated in Dutch)

The Little Match Girl - text version

Translated from Danish by Project Gutenberg

THE LITTLE MATCH GIRL

Most terribly cold it was; it snowed, and was nearly quite dark, and evening—the last evening of the year. In this cold and darkness there went along the street a poor little girl, bareheaded, and with naked feet. When she left home she had slippers on, it is true; but what was the good of that? They were very large slippers, which her mother had hitherto worn; so large were they; and the poor little thing lost them as she scuffled away across the street, because of two carriages that rolled by dreadfully fast.

One slipper was nowhere to be found; the other had been laid hold of by an urchin, and off he ran with it; he thought it would do capitally for a cradle when he some day or other should have children himself. So the little maiden walked on with her tiny naked feet, that were quite red and blue from cold. She carried a quantity of matches in an old apron, and she held a bundle of them in her hand. Nobody had bought anything of her the whole livelong day; no one had given her a single farthing.

She crept along trembling with cold and hunger—a very picture of sorrow, the poor little thing!

The flakes of snow covered her long fair hair, which fell in beautiful curls around her neck; but of that, of course, she never once now thought. From all the windows the candles were gleaming, and it smelt so deliciously of roast goose, for you know it was New Year’s Eve; yes, of that she thought.

In a corner formed by two houses, of which one advanced more than the other, she seated herself down and cowered together. Her little feet she had drawn close up to her, but she grew colder and colder, and to go home she did not venture, for she had not sold any matches and could not bring a farthing of money: from her father she would certainly get blows, and at home it was cold too, for above her she had only the roof, through which the wind whistled, even though the largest cracks were stopped up with straw and rags.

Her little hands were almost numbed with cold. Oh! a match might afford her a world of comfort, if she only dared take a single one out of the bundle, draw it against the wall, and warm her fingers by it. She drew one out. “Rischt!” how it blazed, how it burnt! It was a warm, bright flame, like a candle, as she held her hands over it: it was a wonderful light. It seemed really to the little maiden as though she were sitting before a large iron stove, with burnished brass feet and a brass ornament at top. The fire burned with such blessed influence; it warmed so delightfully. The little girl had already stretched out her feet to warm them too; but—the small flame went out, the stove vanished: she had only the remains of the burnt-out match in her hand.

She rubbed another against the wall: it burned brightly, and where the light fell on the wall, there the wall became transparent like a veil, so that she could see into the room. On the table was spread a snow-white tablecloth; upon it was a splendid porcelain service, and the roast goose was steaming famously with its stuffing of apple and dried plums. And what was still more capital to behold was, the goose hopped down from the dish, reeled about on the floor with knife and fork in its breast, till it came up to the poor little girl; when—the match went out and nothing but the thick, cold, damp wall was left behind. She lighted another match. Now there she was sitting under the most magnificent Christmas tree: it was still larger, and more decorated than the one which she had seen through the glass door in the rich merchant’s house.

Thousands of lights were burning on the green branches, and gaily-colored pictures, such as she had seen in the shop-windows, looked down upon her. The little maiden stretched out her hands towards them when—the match went out. The lights of the Christmas tree rose higher and higher, she saw them now as stars in heaven; one fell down and formed a long trail of fire.

Someone is just dead!” said the little girl; for her old grandmother, the only person who had loved her, and who was now no more, had told her, that when a star falls, a soul ascends to God.

She drew another match against the wall: it was again light, and in the lustre there stood the old grandmother, so bright and radiant, so mild, and with such an expression of love.

Grandmother!” cried the little one. “Oh, take me with you! You go away when the match burns out; you vanish like the warm stove, like the delicious roast goose, and like the magnificent Christmas tree!” And she rubbed the whole bundle of matches quickly against the wall, for she wanted to be quite sure of keeping her grandmother near her. And the matches gave such a brilliant light that it was brighter than at noon-day: never formerly had the grandmother been so beautiful and so tall. She took the little maiden, on her arm, and both flew in brightness and in joy so high, so very high, and then above was neither cold, nor hunger, nor anxiety—they were with God.

But in the corner, at the cold hour of dawn, sat the poor girl, with rosy cheeks and with a smiling mouth, leaning against the wall—frozen to death on the last evening of the old year. Stiff and stark sat the child there with her matches, of which one bundle had been burnt. “She wanted to warm herself,” people said. No one had the slightest suspicion of what beautiful things she had seen; no one even dreamed of the splendor in which, with her grandmother she had entered on the joys of a new year.

How you and I can make a difference

All of today’s proceeds of the blog will be donated to Kiva. Kiva is one of the world’s first person-to-person micro-lending websites, empowering individuals to lend directly to unique entrepreneurs in the developing world.

So if you have been pondering about buying my eBook, the time to act is now! You’ll get the joy of reading my eBook, make me happy to have another reader, and as a bonus you’ll make a big difference in the life of a small entrepreneur in a developing country, working hard to create a better future.

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Introducing new RSS feeds for How to be an Original

Recently I implemented a new category structure on How to be an Original. That category structure makes a clear distinction between the posts that are on topic for the main topics of this blog, the personal posts that are related to my story and the other stuff like technical announcements.

How to be an Original is a personal blog AND a topical blog. Some time ago I discovered admitted that a large part of it is personal, and I’m okay with that.

At the same time I can imagine that some of you are not interested in my ramblings, dwellings and progress updates. I’ve got some good news for you: I created a special feed that contains only the posts that are on the main topics.

The full feed

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This is the original feed and it contains all posts. If you are subscribed to How to be an Original, this is the one you’re reading now.

It contains all categories:

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The lean feed

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This is a trimmed down version of the feed. It does NOT contain posts from the categories “My Story” and “The Other Stuff”. You’ll miss out on all of my adventures in failing in mastering goal setting, you won’t see my weekly reviews, you miss the technical announcements. If you’re thinking right now “I wouldn’t miss those posts at all!”, then this feed is for you. Clean and simple only the posts that are really on topic (so you wouldn’t get the one you’re reading now).

This feed contains the following categories:

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The comment feed

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This is just what it says it is. If you enjoy the comments here, and don’t want to miss a single one of them, this is your feed. Mind you, it contains ALL the comments. There’s no specific feed for comments on the “lean feed” items. And there’s always the possibility to subscribe to the comments for a specific post, just below the comment box.

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New category structure, or how time catches up on procrastinating productivity bloggers eventually

wake-up call for procrastinatorsIf you’re a long time visitor to How to be an Original, you might have noticed that I’ve changed my categories this week. This was a job I wanted to do for a long time, but I have been procrastinating it for a long time.

Yes, even productivity bloggers procrastinate at times. That’s partly because we don’t always follow our own advice, but also because procrastination isn’t always bad. In Producticity Secrets I wrote: “Procrastination separates the urgent from the non-urgent tasks.”, changing my category structure wasn’t urgent at all. I even had doubts whether it was even important.

Covey’s quadrants in full swing

That all changed when I moved to Dreamhost. In the process the categories didn’t come through as they should have. I won’t go into the technical details, but in short: I just screwed up. Changing the category structure (or getting my old structure back) suddenly became urgent. I still wasn’t sure about their importance though.

That too, changed rapidly. Only days after writing that I kicked ass because I was on Alltop, my feed was taken down again. ACK! That’s not good at all. I soon figured out that it was most likely due to the fact that almost all my feed items changed over night, because they publish a category-feed! The same is true for the ultimate GTD index, and when I checked my status there, it quickly became clear that my category-feed was all messed up.

That sure was experiencing first-hand how the dynamics work throughout the quadrants of Covey’s time leadership matrix! Useful? Yeah. Enjoyable? Hmm.

The new categories

Back to the categories: the need for working on the category structure did not solve the very reason of my procrastination. I didn’t know yet what I wanted to do with them! But I’d better figure that out fast, because I needed to fix them on short notice.

The approach I took was to first sit down with my moleskine and start writing, drawing, mindmapping and so on. This usually sets my thoughts in motion. After that I sat down behind the computer and browsed my own blog thoroughly.

That was fun! I “discovered” quite some old posts that I had forgotten about. And somehow they pointed me towards what the category structure should be, and that a category - subcategory structure would fit me best. In the footer there’s a sentence about what How to be an Original is:

“How to be an Original is about discovering who you are, deciding what you want and learning how to get it.”

There you have it, it states the three main topics:

Not all posts fit into those three, so I made two more categories. One of the is called “My Story“, and it contains all the posts that are about me and my path towards living my legend, changing my habits, achieving goals and being productive. In the post about passionate bloggers I stated that How to be an Original is a personal blog, and I stand by that statement. But it’s also a topical blog, and the new category structure reflects that pretty well.

And yes, there’s one more category. It’s called “The Other Stuff“, and it contains…pretty much everything that doesn’t fit into any of the other categories. It’s kind of like the purgatory, only more fun :)

Meta-blogging

I realize that this is another post in which I write about writing, or blog about blogging. They are not the main focus of this blog, and as such they are in the sub-category “General” that resides under “The Other Stuff”. Enuff said?

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A New Home

The move to Dreamhost is complete. Well…almost complete to be fair. The domain needs to be transferred, I need to cancel my old hosting, I need to … more technical boring stuff.

The most tricky part is behind me though. The words I write now are written on a back-end hosted at Dreamhost. And when you visit my blog online, the bits and bytes served to you originate from Dreamhost. Pretty ironic actually: my address is the same, but the physical location of my blog has changed by thousands of kilometers.

I’ll be doing more checks the coming days, and some tweaking alongside. If you notice anything that doesn’t work as expected, please visit the Contact page and let me know!